Why Monogamy?
Why monogamy? There have been plenty of societies (there still are some) which are polygynous (many wives for some men, none for others) and while there are indeed still places which are polyandrous (several husbands, one wife) they’ve been markedly more uncommon.
The first and most obvious explanation might be to do with lower violence and modern medicine. We can imagine societies in which men get killed in far greater numbers than women: highly warlike societies, for example. And there’s good evidence that hunter gatherer societies are indeed so highly violent (some research shows that being a male member of certain modern hunter gatherer tribes leads to a lifetime risk of death by murder of 30-40%….higher than inner city drug dealers face!) that there will be a shortage of men: thus polygamy.
It’s also possible to postulate that given the very high death rate of women in childbirth a possible shortage of women might arise, leading to polyandry. Although where it is seen it’s normally in the poorer echelons of a society that demands dowrys for daughters who marry.
But why is it that, barring a certain few small sects, modern societies are all monogamous: at least, serially monogamous in marriage (there’s always a certain amount of bed hopping going on, of course)?
The answer seems to be in the relative economic value or status of men and women. But no, not men being of high status, women of low, but of the variations in status amongst men and amongst women.
The paper is here and an explanation from Marginal Revolution.
Economic growth means that some women have higher human capital than others and thus they are better suited at producing and rearing high quality children. Wealthy men with lots of human capital will start to bid for these women and they will have to offer them exclusive status; these men also wish to invest in a smaller number of higher quality children.
In other words, male inequality encourages polygamy while female inequality discourages it. Apparently female inequality has been winning that race.
While I’m sure this is correct it rather amuses me in a way. Because higher human capital is another way of describing, in our modern economy, more tertiary or post-secondary education. And we’ve been rather bombarded with stories about how with women now getting a majority of the degrees, how some of them are going to have to marry down, to less educated men, in order to find that desired husband.
That doesn’t invalidate the finding of course: marrying someone with a lower educational attainment than oneself is still consistent with marrying the one with the highest human capital that is actually available. The best of the available pool would still make the mechanism work, that men have to offer exclusivity to gain the women with the highest human capital.
(For those wondering how the mechanism works, it’s like this. Men can have many children, far more than women can, by having many wives. The number of husbands does not determine how many children a women can have: that uterus gets used, along with the associated feeding bits, for some two years per child. The male physical investment is a few minutes: well, more amongst the proficient. Thus the desire for the woman is to be the only (and we are talking purely in biological terms here, not emotional or moral) one whose children the economic resources of the male is being spent upon: for the male, having a greater number of children might outdo the effects of the concentration of his resources. Thus the pressure that the more desirable women are able to bring to bear to enforce exclusivity.)
So even now women are gaining higher human capital than men, that male fantasy of the harem seems to be ever further out of reach.
Unless, of course, one looks to the lower echelons of the society, where children do rather to be sprayed around with rather more abandon.
