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The World’s Children and Gender Equality

January 19, 2007 By: K.Boydon Category: Culture, Parenting No Comments →

Today, I happened upon “Gender Equality Gobbledygook” by Janice Shaw Crouse. She was writing about the Children’s Fund (UNICEF) report, “The State of the World’s Children 2007″. Crouse is a recognised authority on domestic issues, the United Nations, cultural and women’s concerns. As I read the piece I could almost see her rolling her eyes and shaking her head. I was compelled to find the UNICEF report and read it for myself. I mean, the well-being of our children is a serious issue. What could have caused Ms. Crouse to be so derisory?

Women and Children: The Double Dividend of Gender Equality
The first thing that struck me was the subtitle of the report, “Women and Children. The Double Dividend of Gender Equality.” The five chapter titles continued in a similar vein:
* A call for equality
* Equality in the household
* Equality in employment
* Equality in politics and government
* Reaping the double dividend of gender equality

Politics and Prejudice: The Double Whammy of a Secret Agenda
While the stated purpose of the UNICEF report is to highlight the plight of the world’s children, the actual agenda seems to be about reinforcing clichéd feminist beliefs concerning the unequal treatment of men and women in just about every facet of life. The focus is shifted again and again from the welfare of children to issues around gender equality. Maybe there is a connection between gender discrimination and the well-being of our children, but surely it isn’t the only factor?

Fruitless and Futile: The Double Trouble of a Misleading Report
I have not read the entire UNICEF report. I don’t feel inspired to do so. I feel cheated and guilty. I care about the world’s children and unwarranted gender discrimination, but the ambiguity apparent in the purpose of the report has left me unwilling to invest the time required to read it. It has also left me suspicious of future UNICEF reports (despite the fact that the report carries a disclaimer stating, “Commentaries represent the personal views of the authors and do not necessarily reflect UNICEF positions”).

The report reminds me of one of those full-page “advertorials” you see in newspapers. The ones that appear to be balanced and informative articles but are actually designed to promote a particular product or service. The UNICEF report is ostensibly about the state of the world’s children but actually says more about gender equality than children, per se. However, legally, advertorials must state their true agenda.

Shouldn’t the same be true for a report like this?

Sources:

Gender Equality Gobbledygook, by Janice Shaw Crouse, 2007, Townhall.com
The State of the World’s Children, 2007, UNICEF

About the author
Katrina Boydon is a systemizing female with empathizing traits. She is as likely to be found crying over a sad film as balancing her bank account to the last cent.

Male versus Female Bias in the Childcare Debate

August 03, 2006 By: K.Boydon Category: Culture, Parenting No Comments →

An online survey on childcare revealed that more than 90% respondents would employ a female nanny to care for their children. Only 54% respondents would employ a male nanny. Without delving deeply into the demographics of the quiz-takers, the results were nonetheless interesting. In addition, the questions asked were, perhaps, as telling as the responses.

The Intelligence on Male Nannies
The survey explores male versus female attitudes towards childcare and maternity leave. The reasons given for NOT employing a male nanny varied from “they’re too careless,” through “typically, males are emotionless,” to “sex offender sites…majority [of offenders] are men,” and “[men] could not multi-task.” Those that approved of male nannies cited that men are “calm under pressure,” along with “the ability to care is not dependent on gender,” and (loved this one) “the ones who choose to do it are very good at it, otherwise they would choose to do something else.”

The Intelligence on Female Nannies
The responses pertaining to female nannies praised women as patient with children, terrific, having a natural connection, being more maternal, having excellent intuition, etc. Even though there was a small percentage of respondents who stated they would not employ a female nanny, there were NO negative responses about female nannies.

Female Brain Bias in Setting the Survey
As I pondered the results of the survey I noticed a glaring omission in the questions. Clearly, the survey-setter was trying to set unbiased, balanced questions; with any choices relating to men countered by a the same choices relating to women. However, one question asked whether women should be entitled to maternity leave. Four percent of respondents believed that women should not have maternity leave, 28% believed it should be unpaid, and 74% believed it should be paid. Displaying classic stereotypical gender bias, the survey-setter did not even ask if men should be entitled to paternity leave. How would women react if they were ignored in this fashion? I, for one, would scoff and shake my head at the ineptitude and lack of logic.

The Truth is Out
Unfortunately, I must confess to my sins. I am embarrassed and contrite. The revised version of the survey, set by yours truly, now includes a question on paternity leave and is available for completion.

More on this topic when I have analysed the results further (hopefully with a COMPLETELY open mind).

Sources:
Male versus Female Bias in the Childcare Debate, (Survey) SurveyMonkey.com

About the author
Katrina Boydon is a systemizing female with empathizing traits. She is as likely to be found crying over a sad film as balancing her bank account to the last cent.

Are Gender Stereotypes Made or Born?

June 01, 2006 By: T.Van Pelt Category: Culture, Parenting No Comments →

Wrap a baby in a pink blanket and adults coo and smile, speaking softly and sweetly to the little “girl.” Wrap the same baby in a blue blanket and adults bounce it up and down, speaking loudly to the little “boy.” At least, that’s how I remember it.

Call it a personality test (the endurance kind…), call it an example of the earliest social education. These scenes from Nova’s 1980 documentary on gender stereotyping “The Pinks and the Blues” have stayed with me, though the program aired twenty-five years ago. PBS archives say, “this program graphically and powerfully illustrates the ways in which adults create gender characteristics in infants according to their sex.”

Are Gender Stereotypes “Made”?
Created? The female brain and the male brain are made, they’re not inborn? Yes, some folks argue, gender stereotying at all levels is not natural, it’s a product of our upbringing. The fancy name for this group is “social constructionists.”

Are Gender Stereotypes “Born”?
On the other side of the fence are psychologists, like Simon Baron-Cohen, who agree that socialization (for example, the cooing and bouncing) is important. However, “what we’ve found is if you go back in time to when children are very small, you still find these sex differences even before experience or socialization has had much chance to have an effect.”

Baron-Cohen cites an oft-cited finding: “Little girls will look longer at a human face, and little boys will look longer at a mechanical mobile suspended above the crib.”

I can imagine the constructionist interpretation: The little girl sees a human face and anticipates happily the sweetness and caress, inviting it by holding the gaze. The little boy sees a human face and averts eyes quickly–anything to avoid the bouncing, jiggling, and yelling that must follow. “Gimme the damn mobile. Ah, what a relief!”

What does this mean to you and me?
Does it really matter whether the many and varied factors that determine our scores on the EQ SQ personality tests are hardwired or socially determined? Yes, says the social constructionist. You’ve been shaped to be the “you” that you are. So, you can change your rock bottom EQ score and forge ahead with that career in social work if you really want to. And, if you’re a boy, you can learn to love pink.

On the other hand, if that low EQ and high SQ is hardwired, it’s probably telling you that a technical education would be an easier option for you.

And that you really do prefer the mechanical mobile to the human face.

Sources:
The Pinks and the Blues, Nova (1980)
Interview: Simon Baron-Cohen discusses tracking causes of autism back to the womb, by Alex Chadwick. Day to Day (NPR) Aug 15, 2005.

About the author
Tamise Van Pelt, Ph.D., is a systematizing female who was stripped of her pink blanket by a marauding band of social constructionists when she insisted that her low EQ score was genetic.

Why Do Women Work?

April 27, 2006 By: K.Boydon Category: Celebrity, Parenting No Comments →

Would you be surprised to know that it is in countries where women don’t go to work that birth rates are lowest? You might think it should be the other way around: that in countries where women don’t work the birth rate would be highest. Apparently, this is not the case. Children are expensive and it could be that women work simply so they can afford to have children.

Do Women Work Because They Can?

Time studies reported in the Economist indicate that women have more leisure time now than they did forty years ago (and twenty, and ten). Although moms spend just as much time on childcare as they ever did; refrigerators, dishwashers, washing machines, microwave ovens, and vacuum cleaners mean they spend less time on housework. Could it be that women work just because they can?

Do Women Work for the Money?
The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics data reveals that women, on average, are paid less than men. This can be explained partly by maternity leave absences (a prolonged absence from the workplace for any reason can result in lower pay), but that’s not the whole story. The UK (a developed country comparable to the U.S.) Office for National Statistics examines salaries for different age groups. It can be seen that in the under-30’s there is very little wage discrimination, whereas in the over-50’s discrimination is rife. Not so much a thing of the past, then, as a thing of the present for people born further in the past…So young women, at least, work for the money, maybe?

Do Women Work for the Global Economy?

Another observation made by the Economist is that, “…over the past decade or so, the increased employment of women in developed economies has contributed much more to global growth than China has.” Translated, this means that women previously destined to be “only” housewives have created more worldwide wealth than one billion Chinese.

Why do women work? Who cares?! Let’s just be glad that they do.

Sources:
A Guide to Womenomics, April 12, 2006, Economist
Table 6: Annual Survey of Hours and Earnings (ASHE), 2005, Office for National Satistics

About the author

Katrina Boydon is a systemizing female with empathizing traits. She is as likely to be found crying over a sad film as balancing her bank account to the last cent.

Career Moms: Do They Have Their Cake and Eat it, too?

April 06, 2006 By: K.Boydon Category: Careers, Parenting 1 Comment →

Career discrimination on the basis of gender has been illegal for decades. These days, we see women entering previously male (and highly paid) professions in droves. But average wages are still stubbornly different. Why?

Oddly enough, a concession introduced in some countries precisely so that women can pursue a career may also be one reason why women are paid less.

Maternity Leave Career Theory
Employer sanctified maternity leave allows women to take time out and then return to their previous job. In theory, this gives women the best of both worlds. A new Mom can take from six months to a year satisfying the (very real) need to bond with her new baby. After that she can return to her job to (continue to) satisfy her career ambitions. In Europe a long maternity leave is the norm. It’s possible to become a “maman” or a “mum” and pursue a career. Women are not forced to quit their jobs to have children thus putting themselves at a disadvantage when trying to re-enter the workforce later. Seems ideal. Or does it?

Maternity Leave Career Practice
Unfortunately things don’t seem to work out quite like that. Newsweek International reports that the percentage of top jobs held by women in the USA is about 45%, while in Britain the percentage is 33%. How is this possible when Europe, unlike the States, has those apparently career-friendly maternity arrangements? Newsweek comments that Europe is “killing its women with kindness”. Many women who take advantage of the long maternity leave (and other maternity benefits) never really start climbing the career ladder again. Perhaps it’s common sense that men and women with the same job title are paid differently simply because the man hasn’t taken time out and is, therefore, more experienced.

Maternity Leave Career Conundrum
It could be that, whatever the law says, women really have to choose between children and a career. Perhaps taking a year (or several years, for several children) out of the workforce, however good the maternity benefits, means that top-paying positions are out of reach. Is that unreasonable? Probably, not. Would any sensible employer promote a man into a top management position, and/or give him large pay raises, if that man took random years out of his career? Of course not. So why should women have their cake and eat it, too?

It is possible for women to have children and and a successful career, but no one says it’s easy. Unless Moms are able and willing to cut the maternity leave, or work and be a mother at the same time, they might just have to be satisfied with a smaller piece of the pie.

Sources:
Forget all the talk of equal opportunity. European women can have a job—but not a career. By Rana Foroohar, Newsweek International

About the author
Katrina Boydon is a systemizing female with empathizing traits. She is as likely to be found crying over a sad film as balancing her bank account to the last cent.


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